Singles Buddy Time
“I will be Your Buddy in your journey of transformation”.
In my personal 1:1 sessions, I help people from different demographics to tap their potential by empowering them to find and overcome their barriers and limitations by mentoring people in their self-discovery journey to find their identity and mandate. I also guide individuals in breaking through their problems by giving solutions in different areas – Life matters, Relationships issues, and Process/Business guidance.
I have been working for the past 7 years with kids, youngsters, and young working adults with their identity and relationship issues. “I strongly believe one should first discover themselves before they could search for the one/ life partner for a fruitful relationship in order to understand who they are and what they really want in life and relationship.” This will help the individual to work on their improvement areas to become better responsible individuals before they can meet their partner who they can spend the rest of their life to have a purposeful marriage. Also, I work with women from strained, abusive relationships and marriages who are abandoned by empowering and helping them in their healing process and transformational journey towards their calling with their unique talents to bring value to society. “I believe in a relationship, love shouldn’t be begged for, rather it should build each other up”.
GROUP SESSIONS: “Preparation for Marriage“
We as a group of 40+ singles and women who are given second chance for the right relationship/marriage learn and grow together with guidance and encouragement to prepare ourselves in every aspect of our life like mentally, physically, socially, intellectually, financially, emotionally, and spiritually for a purposeful & fruitful marriage/relationship by sharing posts, hosting weekend sessions and personal connects during our waiting period. We as a family celebrate each other’s breakthroughs in the group.
PURPOSE OF THIS GROUP: Different People -> Different Mindsets -> Different Ethnicities->Different Locations-> Different life Journeys -> But one goal (Preparing for a life partner).
- Find Yourself
- Preparing Yourself
- Finding the One
- Preparation for Wedding & Marriage
- Grooming Sessions
- Helping in finding the one
- Q&A – Brainstorming Sessions
- Real Talk Sessions
- Weekend Connects
- Relationship Advice
Why did I start this Group? in 2018, I created and built this group “Preparation for Marriage” after realizing the fact that we have an educational system to prepare us for our career. But sadly we don’t have a system in place to prepare us for a relationship/ life partner/ marriage which is vital. A career and job can come and go but sharing your life with someone for the rest of your life is even more important and we as a society have ignored it. These past years of leading, learning and evolving with this group have helped me to get the clarity of myself and about marriage before I can step into the next phase of my life.
OUR BUDDY SYSTEM
The Buddy system was launched as Prep for Marriage group started to grow from 5 members in 2018 to 40+woman in 2020. So, a Core group was created in 2019 with 3 women initially to help me in this mission as the group is growing. Today we are a team of 13 women of different age groups, locations and professions join to impact other women in this group and nurture them with their talents and work together in encouraging and preparing each other in our waiting period and preparing each other for the one. We connect to understand each other’s barriers to our breakthroughs and work together to find solutions. Also, we discuss different topics which help to prepare during our waiting period like self-discovery & grooming along with mentorship sessions to guide us through elders who are married.
Buddy System abides to the bellow principles:
- Authenticity: We are just who we are and ready to hear your story without any judgements and try to help you.
- Confidentiality : The problems shared with your buddy, stays right there. So you can trust your buddy and share your story and it remains between you both.
- Supportive: We stand in the gap and support you by listening to your problem and suggest solutions to make your life better in this busy world.
We celebrate breakthroughs together as a family when one of the girls in our group gets her breakthrough and moves on to her next phase of life.
No longer will they call you Deserted, or name your land Desolate. But you will be called Hephzibah, and your land Beulah; for the LORD will take delight in you, and your land will be married. Isaiah 62:4
You can join the group “Singles Buddy Time” on Facebook using the below link : https://www.facebook.com/groups/207391204829514/